You Are Not Broken

Premium Membership


A one-of-a-kind membership program for adults who are finally ready to take back their bodies, intimacy, confidence, and life.




Join urologist, intimacy expert, top international podcaster, and bestselling author Dr. Kelly Casperson and other members who are discovering ...

  • Increased confidence in the bedroom and beyond.
  • How to shed the “shoulds” in your sex life.
  • Stop being constantly anxious about sex.
  • Peace around erotic choices.
  • More attention to pleasure in life.
  • Agency in the bedroom and beyond.
  • Better boundaries in the bedroom and beyond.
  • How to own their sex life—instead of living someone else's.
  • How to feel calmer around the topic of sexuality.
  • How to talk to their partner about desires and needs.
  • How to be a better listener to hold space for their partner's needs.
  • How to advocate for their needs in the doctor’s office.
  • The roles that their hormones and changing bodies play in sex lives.

This is the perfect membership for ...

  • All genders and ages (18+)
  • Anyone who wants to decrease your stress around your sex life.
  • Gaining confidence with your level of desire. 
  • Anyone who is looking to improve their relationships and sex life, either individually or in a partnership.
  • Anyone who wants to feel relaxed about sex, worthy, and maybe even excited. 
  • Anyone who is looking for the ultimate up-level in personal growth.

Why is my approach different?

I am not selling quick fixes. I am rebuilding your view of sexuality from the inside out—showing you what you have unconsciously learned and putting you in the driver's seat to live your best love life. This work is not “sexy.” I don’t use titillating material or “top 5 positions” to lure you in to a false belief that changing your sex life lies in external things to be purchased.


What you will discover ...

Sex isn’t “right" or "wrong.” What matters is your relationship to it. Transform your relationship with your sexuality, body, and mind.

You call the shots.

Our premium membership puts you in the driver's seat.  Take what you need from it and leave the rest. You decide how long you'll stay—just one month or for the whole journey! You decide how much learning and work you do.


What's included in your membership?

Guided Workbooks

Updated worksheets to encourage personal development and membership participation.

Journal Prompts

Tap into your emotions with thought-provoking journal prompts that help track your growth. 

Video Content

Access to exclusive, members-only video lessons covering a variety of topics, released monthly.


  • How to Talk to Your Physician So They Will Listen
  • Vaginal Atrophy
  • Menopause Starter Kit
  • You Are Not Broken—Stop 'Should-ing' All Over Your Sex Life.

Podcast Exclusives

Be a part of my live podcast audience! Get answers to your questions for my guest experts and me. Plus, get early-release access to my podcast episodes.

So Much More!

Stay up-to-date with journal articles, learn about life coaching, and submit topics of interest and guest experts you'd love to hear from.

The premium membership is not intended as a substitute for psychological counseling, therapy, or professional health care advice. You will not receive individual medical advice here. This is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Learn more about ...


Desire discrepancy

Communicating what you want and don't want

Thought work on sex

Getting rid of rules that are holding you back

Where desire comes from

Types of desire


Orgasmic inequality

Sex tips

How to talk to your doctor

Understanding your partner

What affects sex drive

That your fantasies are okay


What this membership is NOT ...

  • Anyone looking for individual medical advice—the premium membership and coaching are not intended as a substitute for psychological counseling, therapy, or professional health care advice.

  • Anyone who is a current patient under the care of Dr. Kelly—We define an “active” patient as anyone who has seen her in her clinic in the past three years. Why three years? Because that is how Medicare defines a current patient. If it is discovered that you are an active current patient, you will be removed from the group.

  • Learning how to change other people. We can't change our partner, only how we react and respond (you will learn a lot about that here). 

  • Anyone not willing to do personal growth work—someone just looking for a simple quick fix (especially in a pill form) will be sorely disappointed and redirected to the multitudes of snake oil salesmen/women on the internet who are happy to take your money for a placebo or a very expensive vibrator.

Frequently Asked Questions